Adam4adam Reviews 66

Now have to pay if you want to check out a profile. Every profile asks for a gift. Not worth it!!!

But the quality is so low that I'm better off paying a few bucks for something worthy and reliable like AFGay.com
At least I go on a real offline date every weekend via this service. I dread to think how long it would take to arrange an offline meeting with a real man on Adam4Adam. The community is horrible: I would estimate 98% of drug addicts, con artists, drama kings (or queens) who just want to play with your feelings and troll gay people. None of such profiles ever get banned, no matter if you complain to admins or not. There are either no live moderators or they just don't give a damn.

Full of Fake profiles and teasers. Total waste of time even making a profile. Don't bother. They obviously do not monitor the traffic of fakes and scammers,

They now embrace the scammers and gamers with their new feature Send A Gift. How pathetic.

I've been an off and on member since it's inception in 2003, and it's always been a little difficult but it's been refreshing because there weren't so many ads if any any have everything compartmentalized and they have a gift store. But until recently I started to think that maybe it was bought out by the people that run Grindr or they took a page out of Grindr's playbook. If you have ever been on Grindr you know what I'm talking about. Every time you want to do an action open an email send an email go to a different section search your profile you're hit with an ad where you have to either wait for it to play through or wait for the little x to come up so you can click on that and wait for the next Little x to come up so you can click on that and wait for the next Little x so you can click out that and close the ad very very tedious. Now it's the same thing on Adam4Adam every time you go to do it certain action click a page send an email read an email you're hit with an ad same format you have to wait for it to play out or wait in stages for the sections to play out so you can pick the little x, but if you click too soon you're taking to the Play store and you got to back out of that get back to the page wait for that little page to play out click the x and wait for the next page to go click on the x wait for the third page to load and click on the x to go back to what you were doing sending an email or chatting with somebody and half the time the other person's waiting for you to respond but you're having to watch an ad and click on X's and the other person waiting got ticked off waiting so long thought you were ignoring them and either blocked you or you know won't respond anymore. Adam4Adam used to be refreshing it was old school but it was refreshing because they weren't or didn't seem to be striving to make as much money as they could so I may just end up after some 22 years of off and on membership getting rid of Adam4Adam for good and if you want to try it I suggest giving it a couple days then you'll delete it.

Years ago, this used to feel like a safe space. Now, it’s filled with scammers and A4A does nothing about them. You can usually see the signs but scammers are getting more clever… and A4A does not have a (great) screening process. Require people to verify themselves, make it harder to open accounts, require email and don’t allow the same email to register if they’ve been banned. Simple things can easily be done to make this decent.

I recently went back on after many years off of it and it has only gotten worse. They don’t care about the scammers. If they get their advertising money, they’re happy.

Administration rarely deals with the scammers, extortionists, prostitites, drug dealers and other assorted criminals. If they suspended all those accounts it would show how few real users there are. They are ok with men being victimized, men seeking sex with animals and they will not remove pedophiles. The FBI should investigate.

If I could give this app a zero, I would. Every single person that I spoke to on there seemed too good to be true-and they were. I was asked for gift cards, gas cards, to invest in crypto, led on, you name it. The app is an absolute cess pit of scammers. Be very, very careful on this app.

New member, been active on this site about 6 weeks. While messaging other members & chatting, the site suddenly suspended my account. No explanation, no warning. I emailed them asking, "what the-?". They claimed that their website alerted them that I am "spam". I said that I was speaking with several people in ordinary messages and asked them to reinstate my account since I never violated any guidelines or rules. Their response was to demand that I submit a copy of government-issue full face photo ID. WTF? Is this site the IRS or Secret Service or something? Who in their right mind is going to mail that confidential information over the internet to a non-secure site? Before they suspended my account, I noticed that their site showed members located 15 minutes away from me as being 1600 miles away, and other members who are 5 states away as being 1000 ft from me. VERY sketchy site. Some members said that the site restricts your ability to see any other members' photos in their profile if you use any device other than a desktop or laptop. Don't waste your time, unless you want to suddenly be told to send them your official photo ID or they'll suspend your account.

It’s all been said by previous reviewers- I’m just adding to the numbers. In the last 2 weeks I’ve been hit up by 5 scammers. Some of them are smooth talkers but they always give themselves away by inconsistencies in their stories, talking about their short term investments, etc. Recently I caught someone out by using a reverse photo search- presenting someone else’s photo as his own. A4A is a cesspit where the scammers are targeting guys who look like they might be an easy mark. It pays to be a bit paranoid.

This platform has become a toxic contaminated mess . It’s easy to pick pot the scammers cause 99 %are the ones looking for love and long term growth yeah right no gay guy i ever said that . They pics are of some hot model that tries to convince you they are in the same city if you ask specifics they immediately know your aware and they stop responding . The worst part of this entire scam. Is the fact that A4A is doing nothing to put a stop to it. I would be willing to pay a monthly fee if it chased the bad apples away. I’m glad to see more people are stepping up and voicing there experiences and calling out A4A for not doing more . I’ve finally gave up and started using other platforms. I think A4A can sense the end of the platform is approaching

XXX main profile pictures ( HardFriction ) , you report , gets nowhere , except for "Rizzo" whomever he is , emailing you wanting more information , this site many years ago was useful to meet descent people , now all that's there are the same people in the same black box , looking for drugs , money , and attempting to scam you , the pro ads are prostitutes who call themselves masseurs but in their profile says they are "top" , I don't understand the google me name thing when a "new" member says "google this name " , the site should not be on an mobile app . I think because they are based out of Canada , the USA laws supersede them ... NOT ! and BTW - not a single soul in my location is looking for anything serious , but yet their profile says they are .

There are a lot of scammers, impersonators, and a host of other unsavory people there. I just had a recent encounter that goes by the username of "Lusciousliam". He had someone call my phone claiming to be the sheriffs office and trying to extort me for $4,200.00. Do not fall victim to it. It is a scam. I called the Sheriff's Department and confirmed that this was a scam. The users need to undergo a identity verification before being allowed on the platform. The age verification with ID Challenge, selfie verification should get rid of the underage people who should not be here. This has the potential to lead up to sex crimes because minors are roaming the platform claiming to be of age when in all actuality they are not. A4A needs to do a better job policing these things.

I would not recommend this site to any man in their 60's. Just about every man on this site were either moocher, or scammers targeting older men. I have one last attempt but not holding out any hope. If only their was a way for them to properly screen those put their profiles on there.

One of the worst apps I have ever seen one out of 50 people on the Site is real.. The immediate giveaway is recognizing they do not have English proficiency and their writing style is stilted or unusual... even got someone telling me they're deployed in Afghanistan lol

I was suddenly suspended for no reason with no notice nor explanation. Like many others say, the distances do not match the cities mentioned. My use of the site is rare thus all the more surprise at the suspension. Many there ask those older for money without a pro ad and action is never taken to stop this abuse. The ads are so intrusive and excessive. Scammers abound as they always want to shift the chat to another site. At least they could of send me an email with the reason for the suspension.

Adam is awful they provide a platform for theifts. I was robbed whole i slept contacted adam just to read oh there is nothing we can do, bull suspension of the person going by the name of playboyx21 would be a start. They just allow him to return and stalk freely

He asked for my number so we can move to a third party site. I reported it. The rep wanted "proof" of the chat. I replied asking why they can't see the chat. No reply to that. They have been able to see chats before.

Some reps will cooperate, and others won't...Rhyza. Removing scams is hit and miss.

My name is David I am fed up and angry with why I was suspended on Adam4Adam for being called mean while someone else blocked me after calling me a weirdo and they never got suspended.I was a normal member who never caused trouble to anyone but no more.Most of the people on here has clearly disrespected people like myself because I was a gay man living with HIV and the black community has hated and discriminated against themselves.I am a gay black man and racist behavior in the LGBTQ community,internalized homophobia and discrimination against people with HIV has been high and very common with this dating website.Many other people play too many games and it's gonna upset me because they viewed my profile way more than 3 times without even sending me a message.I got wrongful suspended because I was being mean while another guy blocked me and called me a weirdo.Don't waste your time getting on this website.Only haters and discriminators go on this site.

Sleaze Bag , Drug infested , disease infested people , married men who's wife's don't have a clue they are on there , when you report a violation , you get ignored , if you need meth or any other substance , or a masseuse who wants to top you for money ( a prostitute ) this site is definitely for you